hey Cewl
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> is the appropriate culture on raising a boy is like in america or "the west" but here
In the west is not that different, maybe more subtle? But yes there is some expectation that girls are more responsible and boys can act retarded and rude
> im not saying males want women to act like this inherently
yeah it's mostly bias from the environment and culture
> he doesnt THINK to help
this is the problem and a good trigger for introspection - of course when it's THAT bad you can't self-detect it on the spot, but maybe looking back or asking people around you... People you care about
> his steam deck is charging
kek
> i do believe a man can help with a womans both physical and mental load
yes... can and should. At the end of the day especially in a long-term relationship you gotta help each other and COMMUNICATE.
> the painting due tomorrow
you are selling it? Or for an exhibition? Or just an internal deadline?
> my 2 exams i have tomorrow
good luck Cewl I wish it goes well


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> i almost relapsed
VERY happy you didn't, let's go CEWL.
> i could spend money on better stuff like a gothic lolita op
for sure

 >>/64098/
> whos to say a man that acts kind the first time you meet isn't going to betray you, take advantage of you?
you don't know, but you never know, it's a matter of how likely different outcomes can be depending on initial and boundary conditions. But I don't want to miss the point TOO much and I understand I can't fully relate to how unsafe women can feel
> if you do engage with a person that reveals they are bad after, you will get shunned for it
True. Always victim blaming, like "how could you not see". This works in other scenarios as well btw
> they got over it, together.
together as in they allowed each other to be vulnerable with one another, they did chores together so it would be easier on both of them, when they were both working.
yes this is how it should be and somewhat resonates with my experience, it's the best feeling when it happens - growing together, being there for one another, really caring for the other person knowing how they feel and what they need and how you can help the most. Effortlessly.
> i hope i am understood even though it is just in a comprehensible manner if u cant understand the situation and how i feel about it
you are heard, Cewl, I am always there  when you want to talk