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> Imagine my situation when my country is pretty much bordering russia. My only hope in nuclear conflict is that the aggressors will think of us as a irrelevant target, not worthy of nuking.

Look at the old Warsaw pact plans Poland and Czechs published after the cold war. Neutral Austria was to be bombed with half a dozen nukes.
Poland was in the cross-eye of the west, particular eastern Poland, bordering the Soviet Union. I suspect the targeting reasoning has not changed, only the direction it will coming.