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Maybe if you like drama and lulz, but if youre trying to protect yourself and stand up for yourself, you should talk to people who are actually interested in you instead of people here who just get off on harming you and making you flustered. Because now you're giving the haters what they want, they know they can talk shit about you and that you will read all of it and even respond to it. And you're giving people who hate you your own time and energy. With haters, it's nothing personal, they just want to gain your attention in a negative way that hurts you. You're thinking it's personal and about you but it's not. 

It might be smart just to check in every now and again just to read what people are saying, but responding and being active on here is just making things worse. Hope this helps.