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They have a short shelf life. You've got 8 months to enjoy at most. Don't be a dick. Return the toy to the shelf when you're done using it and don't leave it worse than you found it or the fun stops. 
These girls are rare and amazing. They're misguided just like the rest of us and they're really only chasing dopamine like the rest of us. 
I know some of y'allst folx will never respect a woman like that but I promise that these women are essential and they're usually really dope. 
Don't get bitter when one gives you the best 5 months of your life and then moves on. They're creatures of habit and you just drew the short straw. She wasn't ready to settle down yet and if she left you and moved on even temporarily, you'll never have her permanently so prevent codependency at all costs or you'll suffer a violent heartbreak. 

And try to stop the destructive talk against these women if they elect not to give you attention but gave loads of other men their attention.  They like what they like and they don't need to compromise or be blackmailed because of it. 

Good luck taming your own BPD demon.