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Have you ever had a girlfriend? 
Please answer that honestly. 
 If she said she would then it's entirely acceptable to bring it up again and remind her but telling her that she promised and that she owes it to you is just manipulation because she is still entirely entitled to her autonomy and is welcome to change her mind. 
If she gets out of the shower and doesn't like the way she looks and your biggest concern is the fact that she didn't comply with what you wanted she's going to feel shitty about the way she looks and then feels shitty about the fact that you're constantly bringing up something that didn't meet your expectations isn't that kind of fucked up considering everything that she's given this board?
We all know that she is susceptible to emotional reactions on this board and she's going to respond usually negatively to criticism, so just chill dude. Please.