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Many times in my life I wish I had help and I didn't. This idea I won't even try to help and then she ends up hurting herself more is not my favorite. I am offering help, she can take it or leave it. She will continue to hurt herself and others if she doesn't fix her shit. But I can't force her to listen so that is life. I just hope people here show at least some kindness instead of being garbage.