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> Idk if it's because she's actually had a fucked life or if it's all lies.
Her mom dying changed everything about her for the worse. 
But that aside, she greatly exaggerates things both personal and from third parties to gain sympathy (pity) when reality was much more tame. 
In any case whatever fucked up thing she has with this guy isn't due to that. It screams that it just plays right into her mommy dom fetishes. Advantage taking.