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Being real here, assuming you've even been honest in what you've said, I think your biggest failure was just in assuming she would show you the same decency and respect that you were willing to show her.  That was clearly never on the table for her from the start.  Nothing you could have done would have made that happen.  Maybe when she's a few years older and had some time to think things over she might be willing, but she's just too young right now and this kind of lifestyle is too much fun for her to leave behind.