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I don't think anyone really cares here man. Sorry, but societal decay and the prevalence of antisocial behavior being treated as a moral good under the guise fighting for equality and fairness or to protect children or whatever else has just kind of just made every public online space a fight pit or coliseum for the broken and abandoned and our screams will always drown out your conversations as long as we're allowed to torment each other.
learn to love the hate or keep your head down, the public internet sucks now.

If you want to find a girl to care about idk man, just try to talk to one on one who isn't evil and build up a friendship with her. If you want a place to socialize that isn't overwhelming, there are still niche discord servers with really chill ppl but sadly you're going to have to pop your head up in the shitty public ones until you get recruited into an invite only one that actually takes the time to scout for worthwhile members and isn't afraid to trim the fat. just learn to conform or at least mirror those around you.