I almost forgot two important things: alcohol definitely helps if you're awkward, on the spectrum or whatever you want to call it. But be careful. Buildup some tolerance to it. A man that can't drink more than a woman = pegged. Second, never resort to prostitutes. This is key in a woman's logic. It's difficult to explain. Spend on dates. Buy her that weird outfit you want to fuck her in. The moment you pay for the actual pussy you're the equivalent of a mudshark. Hope to start seeing pics of your conquests soon ;)