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I have never defended degenerate behavior from men, you might be confusing me with another person.
I've always advocated for good behavior from BOTH men and women, it's just that women are allowed to get away with way more without any consequences.
> Meanwhile the average man sees it within his rights to not resist these biological urges
A bit off topic, but I'm glad you mention Hypergamy. Maybe men are just tired of putting in a ton of effort for relatively little reward. Like a man needing to be athletic to be with a woman who's never been to the gym in her life, and especially her thinking she's on the same "level" as him. Or a man needing to outearn a woman or else she's not interested.
Or how men have to initiate contact and entertain women and all that stuff, and the women get to just sit back and enjoy the service.
Perhaps many men are seeing how women have it hundreds if not thousands of times easier, and just figure it's easier to jerk off than to play a rigged game. I'm not condoning men doing this, I'm just presenting one possible reason.
> I don’t see why anything I’m saying is seen as insincere discrediting or whatever.
Well, it kinda puts me in a tough situation where I've personally seen stuff that I've mentioned happening over and over, except I don't actually have the studies to back it up.
I've experienced it, I've seen tons of men who've experienced the same, I can go speak to a woman and I'll immediately get further confirmation of the experience (ex. women never admitting to mistakes). But since I don't have the academic studies to post, suddenly none of that counts.
I understand the need for objective empirical data, but are you seriously telling me that you've never seen women act in ANY of the ways I mentioned before? You even mentioned Hypergamy. Come on, you know some of the things I'm talking about.
> I think the reason this all bothers you so much is because you feel like you didn’t make the cut and it’s easier to say women are bad
You're mistaken. I have no personal emotional beefs with women. My beef is strictly ideological.
I could be the virginest of virgins, and it would still be true that women constantly dodge accountability.
I could be the ugliest least attractive man on the planet, and it would still be true that female stand up comedians are painfully unfunny.
What I'm saying is, my personal situation is completely irrelevant and detached from women's behavior.
Women are already fucking up. Does me simply pointing out their fuck ups make me an "incel"?
> but there’s a reason the guys who these women actually pick for sex and for relationships aren’t mad about it.
Please do not confuse my longwinded autism for anger. I write these retarded walls of text because I've noticed the ideological inconsistencies with the world over the years.
I see a woman hitting a man in public, and nobody cares. Then he just slightly defends himself, and everyone freaks the fuck out and gangs up on him. Boom, I notice that.
Women complain for eons about "beauty standards", but they're always praised and loved no matter what they look like. You'd be extremely hard pressed to find a woman who is just too physically unattractive to find a partner. Yet they act like they're huge victims. I notice that.
Feminists complain about "oppression", but western women are actually THE most privileged social group on the planet. I notice that too.
I could seriously go on, but you get the point. Noticing patterns doesn't make someone any better or worse, and you don't need to be in a bad situation to notice patterns.
Shit. actual chads who bang women left and right are probably WAY more hateful of women than any "incel". They're the ones pumping and dumping them, and strategically pushing the right buttons in order to get the woman to open her legs.
Not to mention the deadbeats that women CHOOSE to reproduce with.