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> these signs usually wont show up at first
That's fair, I believe that. But then the question becomes why they don't leave at the first sign of abuse, or at the first red flag. Can you answer that one?
> your average normie girl isnt doing this
Incorrect. Your average normie girl will accuse an innocent unattractive man of "harassment" (or at least socially shame or look down upon him), while tolerating or encouraging ACTUAL unstable or violent behavior in chads.
> they dont
But they do. Have you ever heard stories of men dating a woman for years, but then he "opens up" the tiniest of bit, and she immediately grows cold and later leaves him?
> she probably didnt
What do you mean "she didn't". Of course she did. It's not like everyone around her was abusive. She just had to pick someone who wasn't abusive.
If a woman dates an abusive man, it means she looked past the 99% of other men who AREN'T abusive.