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> Can they love?
They can't. I've seen it and experienced it first hand, and none of it was real. My ex was a vicious, manipulative BPD slut and I wish that I never met her.
She never really loved me or cared about me, she idealised me, and then after a while she discarded me. I never mattered to her, either. I know I loved her, and I know that she didn't love me.
I saw her behavior, I heard her worthless words. At the time I thought it was all genuine, that was before she eroded away all my self esteem and every quality I had.
She didn't behave in a kind and loving manner towards me because it's what she felt for me, she behaved like that because it's what she thought I wanted. That is not love. That's mirroring. There's nothing genuine about it, it's purely manipulative behavior. I'll never believe anything but that, and I'll never trust a woman with BPD again.