>>/75171/
By leaning in, you unknowingly reveal your feelings of inferiority. So don't do that. Stand up straight.

It's your frame. If she wants you to hear her better, she should be the one to lean into you. SHE should bring herself to your level.

When you lean in, you ruin the polarity between you and her. It subconsciously shows that you value her opinion more than your own. 

 >>/75174/
You are at stage 1.