what I wanted to say, before being insolently distracted, is that I just think that ken female orbiters see her as a role model, so they don't feel the need to compete as their male counterparts, who are busy sexualizing egirls. therefore, female orbiters also don't feel ambivalent about ken, as they would if they were infatuated with someone they couldn't have for themselves. some girls might be envious of her, but then they wouldn't technically be orbiters. I think this explanation makes more sense than all that sweeping generalization about women.