Honestly, as time goes on, I understand players more and more. It's very hard to treat women as more than walking fleshlights, when they consistently mistreat and abuse and take advantage of any man who care about them.
It's like "Oh, you're gonna backstab me if I treat you kindly? Cool, send me nudes, hop on my dick, shut the fuck up about your stupid emotional bullshit, and go away until I wanna unload in you again.".
Surprise surprise, women having power over others ends up encouraging more bad behavior in society.