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I don't think it's accurate to label her with ASPD or any other personality disorder based on just a few posts. Diagnosing such conditions requires much more than what you can gauge from her online interactions...
She is definitely capable of empathy and forming emotional connections, I know this better than anyone. It's not true that she only interacts with people based on their attractiveness or that she is manipulative. She values honest and respectful relationships (as a friend or else) and isn't about leading people on or deceiving them, I am.
These broad diagnoses and labels don't really reflect who she is or how she relates to others.