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You shouldn't allow your mother to dictate your life like that. You'll never be an independent adult if you allow your parents to still treat you like a child. I would decline college, tell her the student loan debt is almost never worth it and you won't become another debt slave. Tell her you're going to get a job and then pay her rent. When you start paying rent and working they'll start treating your better and you'll feel better about yourself. Then you can start making your own decisions, how you want to live your own life, who you go out with, blah blah. It's work but it's rewarding.