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> but is choosing to neglect it... for what? Delay? What's her gameplan for that?
I don't know what her plan is but I think she could help her make friends and get to know more people so she learns what healthy relationships look like.
If she talks about the noncing publicly, bonbi might cut her off, get even closer to the nonce, and there goes emiru's chance of helping her.
She can't force them to break up and problems like this don't get solved with the snap of a finger.
> Absolving her of all responsibility is awfully patronising.
I'm not doing that though. She should take responsibility for some of her actions, but I don't get why you're so focused on this? Did she do anything to you personally? Are you deepsauce or a gardennigger or something? Apologizing to her friends is something she should do at some point but she probably won't do it until she has accepted that seth is a groomer.
> 10 months since Emiru has entered the scene (has it really been that long... holy shit)...
You've got a point here. Nothing has really changed for the better so far.
Change needs to happen but I think it's difficult to control whether the outcome will be good or bad. Hence why I'd be careful with drastic actions.
Either way, I don't think any of us can influence this anyway. Or what's your plan?