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Bonbi gets angry and sad after AX. Early July.
Emiru unfollows in late July.
Bonbi keeps talking about drama and gaslighting friends and SA until she escalates in late September.

There are some inconsistencies between our timeline and Bonbis story.
But we still have gaps in our knowledge.
Im feeling confident we can figure this out.

friends who also continued communication with her and her group.

Re: Bonbi & Friends

Bonbi's story changes as she grows. Initially, she said she had never been involved in drama with friends, but eventually said she had once. She said she and the friend had a big fight, which was the start of the drama.


If I recall, the first time I heard Bonbi mention a friend, I didn't make the connection. It made her seem like she wasn't close to anyone.
The first time she talked about gaslighting, she said "I had an argument with a friend who was a gaslighter".
She used the term "gaslighter" three times.
She used the term "drama" a few times.
I don't remember what the first use of "drama" was, but I can see that it was between July and September.
Im pretty sure Bonbi used the term "drama" when talking to the "friend" who was gaslighting.

Re: Bonbi & Friends

I would think that since the gaslighter friend used the same tactic, and was not successful in stopping Bonbi's communication with AX, and Bonbi was still able to continue her communication with AX, that there would be one or more other friends who were also continuing their communication.

Re: Bonbi & Friends

Bonbi gets upset at the friend's tactic when she learns about it.
Bonbi gets upset at the friend's tactics, but is ok with continuing her communication with the gaslighter.
Bonbi gets upset with the gaslighter for her tactics, then the friend, and then the friend for not speaking up for her.
Bonbi gets upset with the friend for taking her advice and doing her own thing, and is ok with continuing to talk to the gaslighter.
Bonbi is very angry at the gaslighter and the friend for continuing to gaslight her. She keeps saying "I can't believe it!" to everyone who tells her something.
Bonbi goes off on her friend after she tells her what's going on, saying "I told you to stop talking to him!" but is not angry at her friend for continuing to talk to the gaslighter.

Bonbi was angry with her friend who kept talking to the gaslighter. She got a little upset at the friend for not speaking up for her, and then was angry at the gaslighter when she saw that he didn't care and continued to talk to her.
Bonbi got mad at her friend for not speaking up for her, then she got mad at the gaslighter for ignoring her and her friend. She stopped talking to the friend. She then blamed herself for "letting down her friend" and started feeling like she had been bad. She couldn't believe that her friend didn't speak up for her. She was mad at the gaslighter. She had an argument with her friend about the gaslighter and she didn't want to speak to her about it anymore. Then, she and her friend stopped talking to each other. She didn't want to get involved with the gaslighter.


Now, the gaslighter has unfollowed Bonbi, and Bonbi is talking to everyone about how her friend is gaslighting her. She is not talking to her friend and is now upset at her for not speaking up for her.
She is upset with her friend for "trying to make herself happy" by continuing to talk to the gaslighter.
She is upset that her friend hasn't spoken up for her and is mad at her friend.