agree somewhat but it is on her to at least try to improve herself in some way. she has listened to the most brain dead people around her to pursue short term goals which will not at all serve her in the future. more than a few have said her parents have been neglectful but she is 19 not 12. she wants people to take her to be  an adult but  she acts like a 10 year old most of the time. all of this said i hope she can find a way to do well for herself and no i dont mean selling lewds.