>>/33264/
The whole point is that she has never been sheltered or coddled.  
I cant shelter her from anything, I can try to change some minds here. 
People telling someone they are stupid and lazy never helped anybody be a better person.

 >>/33276/
I think feeling this is normal and good.
I feel basically the same. 
Not guilty exactly, I was not involved in any of the awfull stuff that happened to her.