It's fun thinking about how easily I could just get into her comfy bed on a cold night, wrap my arms around her and pull her in against me, and there is nothing she could do about it but wiggle around as I tell her to knock it off and relax because I'm not even trying anything funny. Eventually she relents, though still nervous, until some time passes and she comes to enjoy the warmth and the feeling of a man's arms around her in her bed. Something entirely new to her, but it feels so right, so natural. No more of that cold, empty bed every night...and soon, when she's ready, it will be even warmer.