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Imagine having a bonbi gf whose legs didn't work. She'd make you carry her everywhere because your apartment is too cramped for her to use a wheelchair properly. Whenever you'd go out for a walk she'd drape her arms around your shoulders while you hook your arms under her limp legs and she hangs on to you like a backpack to keep you company while you're taking a stroll through nature. And she'd be pointing out stuff and talking quietly in your ear like "ooh look at that pretty blue bird haha"