Is there anything "lighter" in the realm of this fetish? I'd like to see some intimate, warm love but just in a setting where the woman takes the lead, little domination okay, but nothing fucked up like locking away genitalia, mutilation, ball-busting, pegging, fisting, humiliating etc. like you dudes seem to enjoy. Just... something more sensual rather than brutal, something where the guy can get off too on the basis of "normal" stimulation instead of being trashed physically and mentally.