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I'm trying to say that usually when people talk about "sense of humor" they mean either the sense to pretend something is funny for social reasons, or you should find it truly funny but not because you sense anything from the joke itself, or the joke would be amusing even while it starts to get old or overused. Otherwise being the butt of a joke should be the perfect reason to not laugh at a joke, because to you it is something you already knew and others just now noticed. But that's exactly when people are told they have no sense of humor, if they are the only person in the room already bored with the punchline.
I'm a bit on edge by how the culture decided to choose the exact words that are definitely a false statement, when they express this emotional idea of "sense of humor". It's a cultish vibe. Why not just be at least slightly accurate to reality.