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>>/41789/ Now this is bait material isn't it? Or are you really that bad at it or just autistic in general? Because if you are that somewhat explains it. I have a friend who has aspies and autism and he struggles with things like that a bit too. Mostly just not knowing what is apropriate. But that's why me and my friends like him, because he's blunt and doens't bullshit anyone and says what he actually thinks of you. > where is the list of possible classes etc. What the fuck do I know? Depends on your area. You should go to those that interest you or seem jsut remotely interesting. Just as an example most eurobros have folk singing / dancing classes. > You need to have friends in first place. We'll then use any of the other approaches I mentioned. > What kind's of relationships exist? Again I don't know. From my experience there are people you know with but have no interest in hanging out with. There are those who you do stuff with, have casual convos and sometimes would hang out with if they asked but not much else. Then there are your close friend with whom you spend most of your social life and both of you try new things together. Finally there are people like your family or serious romantic interest, with whom you pretty much live together. The status of any relationship can change mostly by spending less/more time and becoming more distant/closer. > What other stuff to do at beaches and parks? Any stuff you want to do in fresh air and in the sun. Games mostly, being with pets, sports, exploring places. > ...can do those things of if I will like the activities. Then don't try anything. Stay where you are and nothing will change. Sure, you won't have solved your problem of making friends but hey, at least you won't have to put in any work and do anything that maybe slightly scary. > I am interested in PC... What fun things can be done that are not that? Step one: turn off PC for a few days. You'll see that everything is interesting as fuck. Anything that you pay your attention to and try to understand instead of dismissing it as instantly not worthy of your time. If you actually try for example sand castle building, you'll find that you actully know next to nothing about that and that there's so much shit you can learn and master with it that. Internet makes it so easy to find info on this kind of nieche stuff. You can spend weeks on the beach just building sand castles if you wanted. And this is just a first thought that came into my mind. You will never find anything interesting if you have no curiousity in the world that surrounds you and won't agree to explore it. > What activities can I do if I go with my friends? Same ones that you can do alone, but in teams or against each other. Shooting hoops by yourself is one thing but with friends it becomes basketball. Flying RC helicopeters is one thing, but in group it becomes a race. One great strategy is to go filming a shortfilm and then ask people around you to act a bit. It will be fun, casual and you will have reaon to get together again for doing that. Whatever you all share an interest in. Have at least some imagination.