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> The group he is joining isn't humanitarian or anything. 
I figured.
> Maybe it will be destroyed or disbanded and he will get sent to do that, who knows.
This is what I was thinking about.
If his kids arent adults then he's being very irresponsible. Someone should bash into his head that he has a duty towards them as a parent. It seems to me they already live in some kind of dysfunctional family, no need to make their lives worse.