Took kc advice and broke up with cheating gf. Yep, she did A LOT behind my back. I pressed her on the issue. I'm glad it's over though. I now know how Brendan Fraser felt with his ex-wife. 

It felt like she was a literal drain on my life. some people are like that. they like taking up all the good energy you have in you I guess that happens to people who are more upbeat sometimes.