Ultimately, people just want to be loved and have a healthy social clique and family. In the meantime, just do your thing, lick the wounds, and define your passions and identity.
People are unhappy in those situations and it falls apart eventually anyway if you haven't found yourself. Company doesn't necessarily solve anything. I am kinda enjoying my relative solitude at the moment. Hasn't always been like this and I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. Half a lifetime preceded this stage. Anons would struggle teaming up with a normie during this anyway.