You're telling me that you think your personal salvation "isn't about you" and get upset when I observe that's impossible. I'm sorry but I find you arguing in bad faith, which is to say you lack the humility to admit when you've been proven wrong. It's mature to simply say "You're right, I wasn't thinking, kek!". It's immature to refuse everything and try to turn it around and focus blame on the person you're talking to. Very aggressive. Symbolizes insecurity and a need to over-compensate. Please consider just stopping. No one here knows who you are. You have nothing to lose by admitting you weren't accurately following the living Word of our Lord Jesus Christ. You have everything, all of eternal Heaven, to gain by showing humility before the Word of the Lord and agreeing to follow what it says instead of what you tell people it says.
Your choice.