Most normies seem like they're probably seething and malding pretty hard on the inside (I would be too if I knew my gf/wife cheated on me every other weekend and everyone saw me as some random no name loser despite all the wagecucking). I think the real advantage some people have is their stoicism, resilience, whatever you want to call it. That's probably supposed to come with individuation but I don't know for sure I already forgot what I read on the topic lol