I'll be honest, it was a damn good movie. I went into it wanting to hate it and see how SJWpilled it was but there was nothing much to hate about it. It was definitely better than the prequels, that's for sure.
I think it was very respectful to the series. Like, it really feels like a proper sequel to the original trilogy. They did play it really safe though, as it had the exact same plot as A New Hope, but eh, it was fun to watch.
The one thing I didn't like was how the bad guy was hyped up as being powerful as heck but he got his ass kicked by someone who had never used a lightsaber before.
But anyways, if this movie ruins star wars for you then I'm not sure what kind of movie wouldn't. I don't want to sound like a paid advertisement but I can't see how they could have done the big damn return of Star Wars any differently. I mean, imagine if Phantom Menace had come out this year, now that'd be a disaster.