Why does everyone nowadays date because of sex and not because they like the person themselves? Sex isn't even great, why are they so obsessed with it?

A daily reminder that dating today turned stage to joke and no longer serves to solve the problem of others. Incels should no longer exist, women nowadays are inherently despaired by sex; it is difficult and very rare to find someone who wants to be with you for enjoying yourself, not because of sex or something related.