temperance means conscious restraint based on self knowing to achieve inner order of the soul. the unscene whole is not a part of you. you are one. Restraining all the lusts, passions, and desires does not mean cutting off them completely, that will only harm you. Beware, but channeling the lusts, passions, desires, to work for higher causes after taming them gently. Be like that which you want to connect with as much as possible /\°33