>>/18233/
You are correct. Stalking, deception, and isolation are part and parcel of traditional courting. Befriending Bonbi's Vietnamese e-bf (Deepsauce) under the pretense of helping her with anti-doxxing efforts so you can use him to get to Bonbi, then eliminate him as a rival under the guise of being concerned for the girl's well being (due to their 5 year age gap), all the while intending to take his place (despite being an actual pedophile and barely younger than the other guy) is perfectly normal.
Her reluctance to openly acknowledge their normal, healthy relationship...a reluctance she didn't feel with Deepsauce, for some reason (probably because he wasn't exposed for jacking off to depictions of children getting fucked, his other choices notwithstanding)...is also normal and healthy.
Creating a Discord server and doing all of this just to get to a girl who you are attracted to, and to eliminate your "romantic" rival, while publicly stating the exact opposite on each point, is likewise normal. Stating that you are not in a relationship and that one of the reasons is that the age gap would be "abusive", while in fact being in a relationship, is certainly above board. Being a grown man and directly handling the finances of the girl you've done all this courting for is also beyond suspicion. Comparing her unfavorably to Belle Delphine, an unironic e-thot, shortly before this monetization happened is nothing to raise an eyebrow at. Being exposed as a pedophile and threatening suicide in the event that your paramour leaves you is a celebrated custom of courtship. I could go on, but you understand.
After all...
It's What Couples Do™ :^)