It's not about the incels or simps or coomers making comments. She needs to realize that at the end of everyday she chooses to post the content she does in a public forum where anyone can access it whether they pay for it or see it on insta. She outs herself out there and people will always have something to say l, positive and negative. It's the nature of the beast. She can't have only one group of people raise her up and not expect others to say abusive or unacceptable things because it hurts her feelings. Especially with some of the kind of content she posts and the way she interacts with some of the Fan base. But now she put herself in a position where she either deletes all her socials and leaves the internet as best she can, while accepting she can't have all the nice things she wants, can't afford her home, can't afford her cats, and moves back in with her parents. Or she sucks it up and let's it go that people have something to say she doesn't like. She isn't in college and she doesn't exactly have a skill set or experience for a well paying job. On top of all of this bonbi has to stop victimizing herself. We get it shit happened, but she also stirs the pot with her fans. With other internet personalities she's worked with. And it really comes down to she knows the environment she has put herself in, and she needs to choose. Accept it and continue or move on and let it go.