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An e-relationship? Absolutely not. Asking for failure and insanity. In person? Maybe. It depends on what kind of e-girl she is. If she's posting selfies in multiple discord servers and her dms are filled with guys, not gonna work out. If the relationship leads to her spending less time online, then yes, it will work out
 >>/44414/
Why would you when most of them are damaged by pedos/groomers from age 13/14 onward, abusive manipulative boyfriends, sending nudes for attention, sending nudes for money, doing hard drugs, developing multiple mental illnesses, having a shit home life, probably had abortions, will say inflammatory things on the internet possibly putting you both in danger, having multiple crazy exs who might come for her AND you with a shotgun through your front door? 
I love the fantasy, the idea of them, but they come with too much baggage that will spell a monstrous end of the relationship sooner or later. Not worth it for the small chance you can live out your parasocial fantasy. And that doesn't take into account that they're just using you for their needs while entertaining degenerates on discord.
 >>/44431/
On top of this she has hard far more sex than you and is still having more sex than you, meaning she has bonded with multiple men. Her first few having the strongest emotional bonds with her. Likely ruthless guys who played with her emotions, which she liked while pretending she hated him. I watched women in my family and girls at school do exactly that. 
You're probably a good wholesome dude, anon. Have more fucking respect for yourself.
 >>/44414/
anon don't associate with mentally ill online women, trust me i PROMISE being around a bpd/schitzo/aspd e-girl will absolutely ruin your life, please don't do it
>  >>/44414/

> Is it possible to have a longterm healthy relationship with any e-girl?

Usually people don't want to stay with girls like this for long principally because they leave a shitload of damage. It eats at you from the inside and sap all of your energy.

I fell for this trap a grand total of one time in my life. Not with a yandere, but with an emotionally dependant manipulator and I fell head over heels for her. The experience has left me with so much butthurt that I haven't ever felt anything for any girl I have dated afterwards. Obsessive loves makes you completely blind. I was absolutely obsessed with her and saw her as the greatest gift of our great God on this earth even though I could see the mistreatment right in my face, even though I knew when she was lying, which was all the time. It's just that nothing of it seemed to register in my mind. I knew, I simply didn't care. 
But then when all the lovey dovey bullshit starts to fade after a few months you start to get off your cloud and you notice just how much you'd actually hate her if you weren't in an intimate relationship with her. Any kind of girl like this registered as trash in my mind beforehand, but one had succeeded in trapping and I couldn't ever bring myself to hate her, then she ghosted me and I was so fucking mad that I legit turned insane and I probably still am. I can't feel anything intimate with women I talk to anymore. Everything they say to me sounds like trickery. It's not that I hate women in general. I actually had a good amount of purely platonic relationships with women, but any girl I date feels fake to me and my ability to trust women has been irreparably compromised.
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I was fucking friendzoned once by a normal girl and it almost ruined my life. I used to get jealous of her even though we never even kissed each other. If I dated... Let's say, Marky, I would probably kill her (given her history of cheating).
 >>/44545/
> Learn to take pleasure not in what something actually is, but in the ideas and dreams it provokes.
This stings too close to home now after touring these boards and threads. I got infected with the e-girl virus too fucking fast. Luckily I've learned some lessons before hand that helped me realize what they are in my head is a farce. 
That's what I want op to realize.
 >>/44548/
That's how I feel about Sunny or Ciara. I know I'd be on edge in the relationship because they have so many orbiters on discord, 4Chan, and other sites. 
Someone is going to run their emotions just the right way then it's off to the next cock, even if it is e-dating. I wouldn't kill them but I'd be real upset.
I personally edate one of the ""famous"" girls posted on this board and I gotta say, it's kino. She's not as unstable as most of them, but like with any woman there needs to be a certain amount of scrutiny with everything. 

But for a large majority, depending on the egirl, it can be less stressful than some IRL chick.
 >>/44593/
People always say they aren't problems with a relationship up until there is. Then they're crying about it. Just because there aren't problems now doesn't mean there never will be. 
A fat person won't have a heart attack for years, until they do. Then they regret not losing weight and eating better. If they live, they can decide to do better, but some damage will remain.
there is no "edating" these whores unless you don't mind sharing her inbox and her actual box with 50 other dudes. The only decent way would be to beat them at their own game. manipulate them, pump and dump, invest little time, money and effort according to their mentally ill e-hooker status. even then you would still have to deal with all the trappings of sticking dick in crazy. only for those who enjoy being abused and cucked.
 >>/44599/
As much as that might sting, this anon is right. If these girls have this sort of pull online, you don't think degens irl wouldn't go after her? I'm sure many of them use or have used dating apps. They've been slid inside of and have screamed for multiple dudes. 
Not only that, other orbiters may have the means of meeting up with them. Like what happened with Ciara. I think Sunny met up with someone from discord? 
I couldn't do it. Their pair-bonding is fucked.
 >>/44602/
The only e-girls I could see myself trying to date are Ashley if she wasn't lesbian, Randy Taylor, and Agatha if she wasn't a tranny lover. Everyone else I know about are a jail sentence, if I went by your logic.
 >>/44608/

I appreciate everyone wanting me at, but I keep her well-leashed and she understands that cheating on me would be basically a death sentence for her. She knows it's not a joke and that I'm probably crazier than she is. 

We've met up multiple times over 10ish months and have spent weeks at a time with each other to make sure we get along. I'm not implying edating is better overall or anything, but there are some pros and cons with it like there are with regular dating.
P
I plan to have her come live with in a couple of months. We have a pretty healthy relationship and rarely fight, even in person. As I mentjoned before, she's really not bad and she's pretty stable emotionally and mentally especially compared to these bpdevils that are posted here and post in their own threads.

If someone guessed who she is, I wouldn't mind confirming. But I'm not going out of my way to expose who it is myself.
 >>/44611/
You type like pedoi's bf. Do you know that she cheated on her first bf and pretended he didn't exist while attention whoring on r9k?
 >>/44611/
I'm sure guys who have lurked here can take a guess as I've only started caring about chan e-girls recently. I knew about them over the years but only lurked threads here and there. The only ones I took an interest in was Ciara, but she's dead, Ashley, but she's stopped posting, and Sunny, but I guess she only cares about discord. Someone said she only cares about it when she gets fired from a job. But others said she's a bpdevil.
 >>/44613/
Idk something makes me want to give him the benefit of the doubt. Other guys from around these parts were able to bag these girls years ago, so it's not out of the realm of possibility.
 >>/44616/
Can you say already who you are supposedly dating? I want to have a good laugh about this "very mentally stable and very faithful e-girl".
 >>/44618/
Wrong anon. I'm just saying I can't guess as I've only become familiar with a few e-girls recently. 
I want to know too so I hope some anon can guess.
 >>/44622/
yeah all of these new egirls are self posting wannabes for the most part. but just like the egirls of old they are so desperate to imitate, none of them are remotely mentally stable or capable of loyalty
 >>/44617/
> Other guys from around these parts were able to bag these girls years ago, so it's not out of the realm of possibility.

What "other guys"? Discordfaggot groomer pedros? Millionaire 4chong mods?

The only e-girl ordinary robots were able to "bag" was Ciara, and that was simply because she was a whore.
 >>/44624/
That doesn't mean she'll remain loyal. How many people across all of human history have become married, had children, and then cheated?
 >>/44625/
Even a fat Brazilian like roberto managed to score with marky. All of these girls are attainable and that's part of their charm. The point is that you will be sharing them with a dozen of orbiters and other e-bfs that you are not aware of.
 >>/44628/
This. E-girls need a ton more attention than a mere robot can provide.

Don't fell for the trap. If they are clingy and lovebombing with you, they'll be like that for any guy who gives them attention.
 >>/44631/
I think it's better not to deal with them at all. Watching from afar or fantasizing about them (keeping in mind what is the reality) is fine.

> don't stick your dick in crazy

So many things can go wrong doing this. It's really not worth it.
 >>/44649/
You're right, anon. Got to control your biology and reject them. Could lead to attachment issues. Though so many of them have been run through I'm not even sure they're anywhere near capable of that.
For all the people saying my girlfriend is that random bitch, you're wrong. I date cewl. I understand that you guys probably think I'm cucked, because of the stuff she posts - but I tell her to post that stuff because I think it's really hot.

I like showing off my girlfriend and saying "hah, I get to fuck this and you don't". It's a good feeling tnh.
 >>/44680/
I'm still here. I only visit this board every so often and would've hoped cewl would be guessed by now, but instead I've been attached to pedoi/medoi. I've heard she's an actual pedophile or something from Cewl, but I try not to believe anything I see about any of these e-holes, but nothing would truly surprise me at this point.
 >>/44704/
Sounds like you're bypassing steps to get cucked. You should have a girl who's on the down-low, that not a bunch of degenerates know or could get a hold of. She could have discord servers you don't know about.
 >>/44414/
I just learned an e-girl lives near me, like real near. She's not posted on any of the chans and I'm not saying her name.
Too bad she's too young anyway.
 >>/44715/
YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram. I hope she isn't on discord grooming servers. But knowing the history of these girls, I wouldn't be surprised. I don't keep up with her because fuck orbiting but I do check in from time to time.
 >>/44711/

You mean shes MY pure wife. I've fucked all of her holes, multiple times. The same holes you jerk off to.

This is exactly what I was talking about. It brings me so much joy to see others in denial of what I've accomplished.
 >>/44727/
Have you really been Cewl for 10ish months? Cause I swear I remember her telling me on r9k ~2months ago that she like asked out some dude at an MTG con but he was taken, she seemed pretty desperate for a bf.
 >>/50023/
same anon ive talked to a few of the egirls on discord but they lose interest in me quick. I should have offered to have given them money then they might have dated me
 >>/50083/
Both of them have known active socials they can be contacted on. Of course, they would just ignore/block some random weirdo messaging them.
 >>/50098/
Why would you bother asking dumbfuck? You'd just be blocked like the rest of us assholes. She wants little to nothing to do with this part of her life anymore. Leave her be.
I've had good, solid relationships that lasted with girls online because we both have severe issues.

Dating an e-girl would be like dating a hooker with a coke habit. Because they have the wrong type of issues.
 >>/44414/

I simped hard for a minor old school e-girl. Never thought I'd even get to talk to her, but we got acquainted and stayed in touch. Eventually she got into a committed relationship with a stable guy that was like an improved version of myself. I couldn't even be resentful because he was such a decent human being. Within a year she was back selling nudes (even though she gained weight from meds) and they have an open relationship. She recently cut into her ankle so deeply she had to go to the ER. They never misses a chance to post pics of the scars. Enjoy them from afar is the moral of the story. I dodged a bullet by not getting what I wanted.
It's impossible if you have no way to meet up pretty soon.
You might be able to help her out with her problems (and let's be real here, all e-girls have some varying degree of problems) if you can meet up IRL.
But you need to make up a plan when to meet pretty early on, don't just keep it a general idea or let her IRL issues get in the way of it, unless it's something REALLY big.

So yeah, what you're surely going to need is decent financials, so you can either get to her or get her to you. Do not invite her into your house right away though, it's a better idea to just live together during a vacation for a week or two.

Of course, all of these things only apply if you two actually connect and think she's worth it.

Source? I know from experience.


But here is the best piece of advice to know if it's worth it; If she was a dude, would you hang out IRL just as friends and put with all the mental shit? If the answer is "no", then it's most likely not worth it.


If you are like  >>/44548/ and  >>/44597/, stay the fuck away from people no matter what though.

 >>/44727/
There undeniably is something hot about a girl chosing you, while those idiots online try really hard to even get a pic of an eye.
That being said, tell your bitch to stop having disgusting nails.
 >>/50525/
Her family problems infused with her mental issues made her essentially shut off at some point. It was around half a year after we talked about having feelings for each other. At some point I couldn't take it anymore and told her I was breaking up.
We had already semi-concrete plans for the vacation together near her place. Talked about the stuff we'd do together and in which area to stay. I have a good income, so I would have just paid for everything and see how it all would have worked out.

I'm not opposed to an LDR in general, but the same thing applies: make a concrete plan and try to stick by it.
 >>/50499/
> If you are like  >>/44548/ and  >>/44597/, stay the fuck away from people no matter what though.
Why? Not any of those anons you quoted, but I wouldn't tolerate her to chat up with dozens of guys on social media, let alone meeting up with them, as e-girls love to do. I can only imagine how crazy I'd get too if I discovered she cheated*was cheating.
I'm so curious, what is it like dating an egirl? Are they actually as interesting as they seem?  Are they sweet or just emotionally empty from all the simps they've sucked dry?
 >>/50533/
> Why?
I don't know what else to say, besides what they already said.
Killing somebody over this or stalking somebody who friendzoned is completely abnormal behaviour.
Those two are severely mentally ill and should be kept from interacting with people.
 >>/50531/
So you talk to a girl for a half a year, fall in love with her, make plans to live toghether, prepare everything and... then you break up because she's mentally ill and from an abusive household, but you already knew both things, what? This story makes no sense. 
Did she ghost you for pursuing someone else or did you break up with her because she was cheating on you? Come on, be honest. 90% of the times e-relationships with these girls have one of those two endings.
 >>/50540/
Because there aren't severe enough consequences for being disloyal. That's not even just with romantic relationships but any relationships in general. Don't waste my time and make me regret even being with you in the first place. I don't want to be with you only for you to show me I'm not worth being the only one you mate with, basically. That's essentially letting other mates enter you tribe to have a go at her. 
If you need the sex and attention so bad from other men, don't even get with me in the first place.
 >>/50555/
It's one thing to preach about virtue when you have never experienced life with its twists and turns. Even a disciple of Jesus Christ betrayed him for coin; don't think yourself above what your nature can make you do.
 >>/50562/
If you know you'd do something so asinine and irrational as to kill someone over cheating, don't put yourself in the position and excuse yourself from the dating pool.
 >>/50580/
My point is that even the most level headed and admirable men are capable of that given the severity and intensity of an emotion such as jealousy and rage borne out of the unforgivable act of cheating. 
It's as pointless as wondering what you'd do if you were to win the lottery. No one knows how you'd really react if that ever happened to you, no matter what you hypothize your reaction would be.
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Two of my most favorite pieces of media are all about a man having murderous delusions of brutally killing random women. It is the only type of protagonist I can empathize with anymore, and I'm not even a violent person - I'm a nice guy!

This is what fucking e-girls have done to me.
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Oh, forgot about Harvester (Spoiler: It's about becoming a serial killer and murdering random women).

I like Steve a lot, he's a nice guy just like me.
I want to date an egirl. how do some guys manage to do it? do they just give money to egirls and they date after that. I refuse to believe egirls are dating guys because of their personality. no one on here or 4chan has a good personality
 >>/62744/
you understand that by "dating" her you're drinking from the public toilet, right?

orbiting should be approached like a bank robbery: get into her dms, get the rares, and get out
 >>/63140/
my favorite egirl is just a misunderstood victim who needs a guy like me to save her instead of all the bad ones who mistreated her before
 >>/63145/
don't fall into her trap

you're not here to save her, you're here to get the rares

the only one she wants to be saved by is Chad, never forget that
 >>/63145/
lmfao guys like you go straight into the trash. if she's sadistic,  she may lead you on for some time before discarding you like garbage.
they keep dating guys who mistreat and emotionally/physically abuse them because they are into that.
 >>/63148/
 >>/63150/
she says she's not really talking to anyone else right now and before she told me things like looks, height, weight, even sex aren't really important to her as a true spiritual connection. she's also told me a lot that I'm exactly her type so nothing to worry about there
 >>/63154/
> she says she's not really talking to anyone else right now and before she told me things like looks, height, weight, even sex aren't really important to her


every single time. 
i swear these bitches must have all read the same book of manipulation and orbiters collection
 >>/63156/
she's not like the other girls that get posted here... she has trauma from her childhood and unfortunately abusive men see that and prey on her. she's actually very kind and thoughtful. very quickly i could feel the connection and like I could talk to her about anything and she's confided in me secrets of what's happened to her that she hasn't told anyone else
 >>/63159/
> she's not like the other girls that get posted here... she has trauma from her childhood and unfortunately abusive men see that and prey on her. she's actually very kind and thoughtful. very quickly i could feel the connection and like I could talk to her about anything and she's confided in me secrets of what's happened to her that she hasn't told anyone else


that's like chapter 2 of the same book.

it's useless warning people i guess. you need to experience it first hand to learn the lesson.
good luck and enjoy they ride while everything is still happy and colorful.
 >>/63159/
trust me, she has confided in 30 other men before you most likely. you arent special or important to her and never will be. youre living in an illusion right now. shes pretending to be wounded, vulnerable, and in need of rescuing because she is trying to manipulate you. best snap out of it before she destroys your life.
reminder that today during the e-clipse the e-girls are at their most powerful. be on your guard
 >>/44414/
No it isn't fucking possible. I had a 2 and a half year relationship with a bitch I met off r9k and I'm suicidal because of it. Don't do this, don't even attempt to make it work.
 >>/63275/
> No it isn't fucking possible. I had a 2 and a half year relationship with a bitch I met off r9k and I'm suicidal because of it. Don't do this, don't even attempt to make it work.
pls elaborate
 >>/63313/
What do you think you fucking dumbass. Do you think any normal woman is going to be attentionwhoring on a god forsaken incel board? There is absolutely nothing you can do to change or save these women, they are permanently ruined.
 >>/63352/
> this girl is different

each one of us said that to ourselves, or "it won't happen to me"... what fools...

I see she already has you wrapped around her finger. You lost your rational thinking.
 >>/63390/
Would a majority of all men on Earth be fucking their hand every day if women could feel sex?

> serves him right
> he trusted WOMEN

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