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> I have blogged asking for advice
> Tell me EXACTLY what to do
I'm not a redpill coach to give you exact advice, what's more my experience is limited enough that I wouldn't say "Yea this will work 100% just do this and that".
You should just do the usual song and dance, be interested in what she's talking about, try to ask her leading questions, duh, pretend that you care if you must.
What you're actually searching for is a moment where physical contact is non-awkward and too forced, whether it's a joke where you give her a bump with your shoulder, or you ask her to show you something (I dunno, nails, a scar, her hands are cold, anything really depends on the conversation) and you can touch so then you can measure her response carefully.
Double entendres work too, well as long as she can get it (yeap, I've known girls that would not get crass jokes and they were interested, not just trying to shut me down), whether you can do that in BGC or not I dunno, but it also gives good info on whether she's comfortable around you (or she can be a prude which will give false info but if it's subtle enough and she's a prude she will most probably just not understand it)
I dunno, it's genuinely not easy to condense courtship into easy soundbites, you just got to be quick on your feet and try to actively search for an opening. As long as she's comfortable enough around you it shouldn't be too hard.